Seem like your ready to get married. Are you sure? Marriage is a big step in anybody's life, and if you're totally ready, then go for it. There might be one problem with your situation, right? There is no man in your life to married, and in some cases a woman to get married to. Don't give up, okay. I believe in you, so that means you should believe in yourself.
Believing is one thing that separates failure from success. When you believe in something that means you are waiting patiently. Haven't you notice whenever you're not willing to wait for something, you slightly have doubt about it. That's the reason for you wanting it to happen so fast, because you feel like if it doesn't happen now, then it will never happen. So, you find yourself being this way with all of your relationships, rushing and hoping to be committed to fast in the relationship or else something bad will happen and the relationship will fall apart like the rest of all of your other relationships. Bummer! Do you notice the trend?
If you want to get married, my suggestion to you is this...
"If you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship. Get your own life and love it first, then share it". I don't know whose quote this is, but I totally feel where it's coming from. I know of too many girls that are miserable about their life because they don't have a man and think they will be happy when a man is in it. Wrong, it doesn't happen that way sweetie.
When you are happy while single, you understand that a man is not your maid (he's not obligated to clean your gutters, or mow your lawn when you meet him just to show you he's into you or respect you) when you first meet him. When you are happy while single, you also understand that you don't have to always have sex for him to stay with you. And just because you do whatever he says and put your needs and wants aside for him doesn't means that he will love you forever and decide to commit and marry you. I'm sorry, but these things will do you more harm than good in all of your relationships.
I want to get married; you want to get married; we all want to get married. Abe believe it or not, all men want to get married. They may not admit, but they do. First, they must find that woman that understands them and love them for who they they are, not what they can do for her. Are you that woman? Then prove it! That's all.
Source: http://www.streetarticles.com/marriage/i-want-to-get-married-now-any-suggestions
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